Understanding Narcissist Cheating: How the Games They Play Can Make You Doubt Everything
Is it possible that a narcissist will make you question their fidelity even when they are not cheating?
The Truth Revealed
Unfortunately, yes. Narcissists often deliberately make you wonder if they are cheating, even when they are not. By doing this, they aim to manipulate you and toy with your emotions. They despise you and enjoy the power they have over you.
Both males and females with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) can exhibit such behavior. In certain cases, they might be testing your reaction to these scenarios. This is useful for them in determining how accountable you will hold them, and which limits you won't cross.
Manipulation Tactics
These unwanted behaviors can be seen as a manipulation tactic designed to drive you crazy with self-doubt and abuse. This type of manipulation can often lead to reactive abuse. For example, a narcissist might accidentally kiss someone and film you reacting to the situation. Another example is triangulation, where the narcissist spends time with other friends to make you feel threatened, then break up with you and start flirting with someone else, making you feel even more insecure.
Even If He Isn’t Cheating...
Even if the narcissist is not actually cheating, their behavior can still make you question everything. They are excellent at mind games and exploiting a partner’s insecurities. If you are very sensitive, they will use this to keep you on your toes and manipulate you further.
Additionally, if the narcissist does eventually cheat, it would be extremely difficult for you to tell the difference. They will often justify their behavior by reminding you of your 'paranoia.' The question then arises: Why would a narcissist maintain such behavior even if they are not actually cheating? The answer: for the mind games and emotional manipulation.
The question remains: what would he be like if the shoe was on the other foot? This highlights the imbalance and control dynamic they often seek to maintain in their relationships.
Suggested Read: If you are dealing with a narcissist, consider reading 'Narcissists and Control' in the book 'Prepare to be tortured. The price you will pay for dating a narcissist' available on Amazon and in audiobook format.